Saturday, February 27, 2021

Why Do I Do This To Myself

 Sleep over with my buddies. Movie 🎥 and popcorn 🍿 night. So far this morning we have read books,  made chaffles with our own grown herbs from our Aerogarden, and ate breakfast 😋. And everything tastes better with ranch. Picky kid tested and approved. 




These girls love staying with Gmaw. Dakota came and picked them up after breakfast and Atleigh didn't want to go but they had a bdsy party to go to so I know she had fun once she got there. 

After they left I kicked it in high gear and tried to get some stuff done. I finished some breakfast freezer cooking. I made the rest of the chaffles, and then I made some whole wheat/oat waffles 🧇. 

While the waffles were baking, I multi-tasked and took my aggressions out on the refrigerator. No, in a seriousness,  cleaning out the refrigerator was on my to do list. I started the new year off cleaning and scrubbing every room in the house 🏠 and everything in it. Today, I just cow girled up and tackled it. 


The bad part is my feet and legs were beginning to kill me.  I had to hurry up and finish and go lie down. 🙄 

After I rested some, I got up, had round two of coffee and tackled my floors. I swept, mopped and steamed them. It was time. Now, I do a daily maintenance so don't freak out. 😜 Occasionally,  I just love steaming them and getting rid of grime and knowing they are sanitized. 

However,  I started hurting again. 😞 Just too much standing in one day.  Why do I do this to myself?  

I got finished and ate some supper and promised myself I would pamper myself later and I did. Big, hot,  bubble bath with Epsom salt, peppermint and lavender.  

Now I'm sitting on my bed and just drinking some warm tea and catching up on videos. 

Goodnight all. 


Thursday, February 25, 2021

All In My Feelings

 I didn't have the girls yesterday and used that opportunity to run errands and get groceries. First,  I went and layed on the tanning bed. That is my therapy for my joints. It is winter time and I have more trouble in the winter. I grabbed me something to eat for lunch. 

Trucks are running again and stocking the shelves. However,  Walmart had no milk at all. NADDA!  I had to go to another store just to get milk. And I grabbed 3 gallon. I have two toddlers and that is their favorite thing to drink. 

I was all on my feelings yesterday because all the family circumstances we are facing. Dallas is facing a huge decision. We have come up on a situation and I am not at liberty to say at this moment in his life. I just needed time to myself yesterday. I needed prayer time and grace. 

This morning the girls came early. I was so glad to see them. However, they had a bad day yesterday. They didn't get a nap at all and didn't go to bed until 9 pm. Mind you, they are just toddlers,  that does not mix too well with them. The looks on their faces says it all. They just needed some snuggles. 



After a bit, they got hungry and whined to me what they wanted. 😔 . We ate breakfast and got baths and shower. That helped them a little to relax. I was able to fix my hair and put on a little makeup a little. Some days I look like a busted can of biscuits, some days I have to just get with the program and I feel like looking nice. We all have days like this and it helps to have self care and just  primp a little.  It boosts your self esteem. You have to just make yourself do things some days and when you do, you feel accomplished.  

We got all freshened up and started a little school, well, mostly I just went by their lead. It's OK to let them lead sometimes instead of being so structured. They just wanted to be alone and quiet in their thoughts. 




We read some books and sometimes they were just a little clingy. 




When a toddler says, "I want you" that translates to, "I NEED YOU!!!" ❤

It was time for a snack and somebody loved chocolate pudding with sprinkles. 


She started trying to fall asleep at the table so I knew it was nap time. Follow their lead. 

Sometimes you just need a few friends to take a nap with. 




After nap, I had my afternoon coffee and they had some milk with a snack. We went out and played for a bit but the weather started dropping so we came in. I got supper ready for them.  

After supper we just played and played til Daddy came to pick them up. He is finally off call and is off tomorrow.  They are gonna hang out all day. 

After everyone left, I cleaned kitchen and just sat down and chilled out the rest of the night. 


Tuesday, February 23, 2021

Tuesday

 Well, this morning was back to normal schedule. Jossie came and picked up the girls yesterday evening when she got out of school. It was different seeing them go after having them here with me all week. It was kind of too quiet and lonely last night without them. 

They were back early this morning. We had breakfast. And got ready and they wanted to do school 🏫



I bought this little manipulative for them to practice with. This kept them busy for a bit. 



There is a few homeschool moms of preschoolers that I follow on YouTube. I learn alot from their videos. Yes, you can teach an old dog new tricks. I put together this little teaching game. 


I have some number flash cards and magnetic numbers. I have them count the objects on the card and look at the number word. Then they are to find the magnetic number and place it on the card. Then count out the number of items that I have for them. Today I used popsicle sticks.  I have colored popsicle sticks to use for separating and learning colors too. 

I have been working on more of their activity binders by laminating and putting the pages in sheet protectors. I got these ideas from the videos too. One young lady I love to watch is Brittany Lynn on YouTube.  


Another lady I love to watch is Jennifer Fudge from The Family Fudge. She puts out lunch ideas and it's called Bunches of Lunches. She goes all out though and is very creative. I love her lunch inspiration ideas. I love when kids eat healthy. It makes my heart happy.  I love this simple little lunch I made for them one day. It is a chaffle, cut up apple and a little treat my momma always made for my boys. It is mock ice cream sandwiches.  It's just Graham crackers and whipped cream spreaded on them and put in the freezer. 


You can find all kind of chaffle recipes online. The basic one is just cheese and egg ratio. They love them and they are packed with protein and are nutritious.  

Atleigh is getting to where she will try new things. One day I got her to try peanut butter and banana mixed together. I eat this alot. She loved it. Some days I will let them pick out their chips and snacks for their lunch. Gives them a chance to feel like they are making decisions. 


After nap everyday, I will get them a snack together for when they wake up. They love goldfish 🐠


After nap today, it was so gorgeous outside that we finally got to get out to play. 



While we were out, Jossie came to pick them up. 

I came in, cleaned up a little,  and made my supper. Ate and just relaxed the rest of the night.


Saturday, February 20, 2021

We Are Ok

 We are all OK here in my neck of the woods.  I know there are alot of people still without power or water. People are beginning to go stir crazy. Personally,  I'd rather be cooped up with my family any day. It beats worrying about them being out and about. Oldest son works for our local power company and he has put in some hours during this whole storm and then some because he is on call this week. He is so exhausted. He has been froze all week. He finally gave in and called a family friend to help him with his frozen pipes. He will be there tomorrow to work on those. He was so tired of worrying with them and tired from working so many hours. He is one proud man 👨 just like his dad and tries his best to do things himself and doesn't want to ask for help.  That's good he's like that but I told him it's OK to ask for help every once in a while. 

Jossie got tired of driving back and forth on the ice to go to work so she just decided to stay at work a couple of days. They have rooms fixed up for nurses and emergency staff. I told her it's probably for the best because I was so worried about them getting these girls out in it every day and driving with them. So I told both of them to just let them stay here til all this ice and snow clears off the roads. 

We have been baking, cooking, school, playing and watching movies. 

This is the most snow we have had in years. My kids can't remember it being this much. Wednesday night it started getting heavier then it just kept coming down and Thursday it came down even harder. We built a fire and roasted hot dogs and marshmallows in the fireplace and had a picnic in the living room. 



I made popcorn 🍿 and we watched a movie. I made homemade popcorn in the microwave.  All you do is get a paper bag and put some kernels in it with a little drizzle of oil and salt 🧂 and fold your bag up and put in the microwave on your popcorn setting and wholah! 


The next day we got out and played in it. Of course, we couldn't stay out too long with little ones because the temps were in the single digits. I fell 4 times and was sore for 2 days. 














They had snow cream for the first time. 

The girls help with clean up after eating so we can watch a movie. They love to help empty the dishwasher.  Messy buns and all. 😁


They love to play dress 👗 up in princess dresses everyday.  Anna and Elsa coming at ya. 


Daddy got to come by and play for a bit but every time he gets settled, he gets a call to go out. 


The temps are beginning to rise a little and melt a little but at night it gets below freezing and freezes again. Tomorrow, the temps will rise again and Monday it will be higher so some of this will leave us.  Our main roads are clear but some back roads they have  not gotten to yet and are shaded by trees so it will take them longer. 

I am so glad we were prepared and I got what groceries we needed before this and we have been blessed with power and water. Some people were not so fortunate.

We have gotten a bit off bedtime routine and getting in bed a little later than I like for them to, but hey, this is sleepover at Gmaws for a little longer anyway. 😁 

Well, they are asleep now so I better follow suit. Goodnight all and please stay safe and use caution when getting out. 

Wednesday, February 17, 2021

Preparedness

 My post today is just going to be about Preparedness.  No judging anyone or poking fun. This winter freeze all over the country is no laughing matter. 😐

People in other states are suffering with power outages and no heat right now. Power companies are working non stop hours to restore people's power. Counties are begging residents to stay off the roads because people are having wrecks and running off roads or into other people. Some people are just out taking chances. However, alot of these people are ones who have occupations where the well being of others depends on them. Some employers are not thinking of the safety of their employees. Some people are out checking on loved ones. It is a sticky situation.  Alot of people just got caught off guard and were not prepared and are now needing those groceries. This is what we are going to talk about today. Never be worried about being ridiculed or laughed at for being prepared. 

We've all seen the memes floating around on social media: 

 





These things kind of upset me. 😡 There are people out there right now wishing that they would have taken the awareness more seriously now. No, I'm not judging or poking fun. I'm stating an obvious fact. Our oldest son is battling frozen and busted water pipes right now because we kept telling him back during the summer to insulate those pipes before winter got here. Now, after 4 days of working on pipes and not being able to take a hot shower, he wishes he would have listened to dear Dad. Are we going to rub it in his face? No. Dear Dad has been helping him fix those pipes and dear son appreciates it very much. That's just what you do. 


First thing in preparedness is to always, always watch the weather. Either on TV or with an app on your phone. We choose the apps on our phones since we detest watching the news on the TV 📺 . We have three different ones. If you do not have a cell phone with internet access then you will need to rely on TV or radio.  Please take them seriously.  They can predict but the Good Lord is in control. The weather can change right after a prediction and do absolutely nothing or it can be the opposite. We can predict good weather and all the sudden, BAM!!!!! Something hits us out of no where. Personally, I'd rather be safe than sorry. Take the weather seriously.  Don't over think it but don't under think it either. 

I've seen on the news where people have waited til the last minute after days of warnings of floods or hurricanes or tornadoes. It did not turn out well for them. Please, please take things just a little more serious. After watching the weather reports, start getting things together. 

Getting Prepared:

Go pick up those last minute staple grocery items. Milk 🥛,  eggs 🥚,  flour and sugar goes a long way and lasts a while. Learn how to make bread 🍞 and other things from scratch to stretch your dollars. You can learn these skills anytime to be ready for emergencies. Spend more money on the staple items that will stretch and not junk food. Get a bag of powdered milk to use for baking and save the jug of milk for drinking is one tip. Flour is a base for alot of things like breads,tortillas, biscuits, pancakes,  gravies,  etc. Soups thrown together out of some left over vegetables and broths go along way. Beans can be used for alot of stuff. Soups,  stews, refried beans, veggie burgers,  layered with some cornbread or biscuits. Stock up on some canned items that can just be opened and ate out of the can like Vienna sausage,  beanie weenies, fruits.  Opt for non perishable items like pastas and canned goods.  If money is tight between paydays then please buy wisely. Junk food will run out. You don't have to wait until an emergency to start stocking up, you can start now and every time you go to the store for regular weekly groceries, pick up one or two items and put them up some where for emergencies and make sure the family knows. Save milk jugs and boil water to fill them up with to have drinking , cooking and flushing water on hand. 

If at all possible, please learn to grow a garden and put up your own produce. Or better yet, buy from a farmers market all summer and put up produce. I have two pages dedicated to these topics. Check out our Gardening page and our Canning and Preserving page on our header bar. 

This is just a few ideas for groceries. There is tons of info out there for this topic. Just do the best you can. 

Fuel and Heat:

Please do not get caught without fuel in your vehicles not just during emergencies. Ladies, we get ragged alot about this from our husbands. You know, running our vehicle til it hits empty and not filling up before we leave town. Yea, I've been guilty. So has my DIL.  Its not funny when you have small children and it's the heat of the summer or dead of winter and you find yourself sitting on the side of the road out of gas. Please check your gas tank before you ever leave town.  Don't let it get less than  1/4  of a tank if you can help it. Fill up your vehicles before emergencies or bad weather. That way if you have to get somewhere, you've got the gas to do it. 

If you heat your home with propane, fill your tank in the fall or before the first frost and use it sparingly.  Check your fuel level during the winter and before another round of winter weather that will limit excess to roads, have another delivery come out. Please be careful trying to heat your home using your gas stove or burners. This has caused many house fires and deaths due to the fumes. Try not to even do this with electric stoves or space heaters. They have caused fires too. Be extremely careful with stoves and small space heaters. There are some on the market that are safer like infared and thermostat controlled. Close off rooms that are not being used during the day. Insulate windows and doors that have drafts. Please insulate pipes. If at all possible do some of these projects in warmer weather to get ready for winter. 

If you heat with wood, get that fireplace cleaned out and fluke cleaned out and prepped. Get that firewood chopped, stacked or even delivered. Make sure you have enough to last all winter or you can get to some without any problems if you should run out mid season. 

Never leave a fire unattended. 🔥  Please be careful with kerosene. The fumes they put off are dangerous too. 😳 

Wash some clothes in warm or hot water close to bedtime to warm up pipes to keep them from possibly freezing overnight. Then dry them to heat your utility room up. The past few days I've tried to wash a small load to keep the pipes warm and the utility room warm. Our dryer vent comes out under our porch. This has helped a little because it has warmed up our porch some so it doesn't freeze too bad.  

Livestock and pets:

I am no stranger to this.  For 10 yrs I raised dairy goats and poultry. We still have our dogs. I am very familiar to going out in blustery freezing 🥶 mornings 🌄 and having to bust frozen ice 🧊 for all the animals to be able to have something to drink. Or to haul hot water 💧 down to a barn so they can warm up too. Kind of like their morning coffee ☕  . I have also taken hot water to put in chicken feed to warm them up. I had some spoiled animals.  I have slept in my barn during all kinds of weather to watch a momma give birth and make sure they are OK. I have braved thunderstorms and other weather to go down to the barn and battin down the hatches and to bottle feed babies. Look, ranchers don't get snow days or days off for vacations. You cowboy 🤠 up and take care of them.  But health problems came along and all that changed for me. Now we just have our dogs and our boys have always taken care of them. 

My point is, make sure they have access to water at all times. Check water hoses and outdoor faucets. Cover them and insulate them from freeze. Make sure to get food and hay ahead of time. I've seen ranchers run out of hay because of hay shortages all over the  country.  Stock up during the off seasons. Store it correctly from the elements to keep from getting dusty and moldy. This in itself can be hazardous.  

Now, pets. We've all seen the memes about:




Let me say this. Know your animals. Know your breed. If you have a sensitive dog, by all means, bring it in.  Some pets fur is warmer than others. Long haired cats 🐈 and dogs 🐕 can stay a little warmer but not if the hair gets wet then snowed on. Common sense. Some dogs are bred for cold weather and are actually hot natured. Cold does not bother them. Pyrenees are a good example. So is Labrador Retrievers like we have. They are bred for extreme cold weather. Ours are duck hunters. They love the snow and frozen water but we are still careful.  We have tried to provide then with dog houses inside a barn with hay and blankets and guess where we find them. Laying out in the snow or wading through the mud puddles that are frozen. 🙄🙄 we can go out there and they have pulled the hay or blankets out of the dog houses too. 

Some breeds will go absolutely nuts if you try to keep them inside. They will tear up doors and hurt themselves trying to get out. 

Know your breed and what they can tolerate.  Use common sense and compassion.  Provide shelter to get in out 0f the rain and snow ❄.  Provide food and water. You can use old blankets, hay, wood shavings for insulation. Provide for their needs. 

Storm Shelters:

Trust me when I say this is on our bucket list. We have not gotten around to it yet and been caught off guard a few times. Usually we keep a close eye on the weather. My husband will stay up all night tracking a storm sometimes and if he tells us to have some clothes close by, we know what that means. We have gotten ready before and headed to his mommas house which is just  a mile from us. She has the most well structured home. We have got to have one built here on our property.  As a kid, I can remember going to the storm house plenty of times. I know you need flash lights, batteries, a radio,  cell phone with some way to charge it USB.  Make sure your phone is always charged anyway. There are radios now that can charge phones using USB.   Make sure you have blankets and pillows in case you have to stay in one for a period of time.  Have a first aid kit too. Have non perishable food stored in there and bottled water. Make sure to change out these items frequently. You could always have an emergency back pack ready for each person in the home. An extra set of clothes and emergency trial size hygiene gear. 

Fire:

Always practice fire drills and have an escape plan in place. Have a fire extinguisher and know how to use it. Have smoke detectors installed, and always check the batteries. Never leave the house with anything on such as dryer, stove etc. I'm afraid to even leave a crock pot on while I'm gone and some people do that. Anything can happen in the blink of an eye. All it takes is one spark. Have important papers locked up somewhere in a fireproof safe or box. 

Vehicle:

Always keep your vehicle maintenenced. It is vital to your survival. It is your way to your place of employment which earns your paycheck to pay your bills. You do not want to be stranded on the side of the road for something that could have been avoided. Make sure to check spare tire frequently too. Stock your vehicle with emergency items. Jumper cables, tire rod, blanket, flash lights, batteries,  ice scraper,  first aid kit. Anything for you or children you might need in case of emergency.  

These are some of the things that are just on the top of my head. There are many more preparedness tips out there on the internet. Feel free to research and make plans. 

Please under any circumstance,  do not wait until the last minute to prepare. Start prepping for the next season coming up ahead of time. Prep for winter in the summer and so forth. People are now seeing that this country can not just go ALL green. Some green here and there is OK. But we still have to supplement with either or both. Solar panels can break and not charge under heavy layers of ice or during bad storms that can cause something to break. Wind turbines will freeze and not turn. We still have to rely on fuel and coal and nuclear for heat believe it or not. After all, what heats the White House? That's a different soap box trust me. 

I hope some of these ideas have helped.